Unity

 

I eliminated duality with joyous laughter Saw the unity of here and the hereafter. Unity is what I sing, unity is what I speak. Unity is what I know, unity is what I seek.

Rumi

Everything you see has its roots
in the unseen world.
The forms may change,
yet the essence remains the same.

Love

Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love.

Rumi

When I am with you, we stay up all night.
When you’re not here, I can’t go to sleep.
Praise God for these two insomnias!
And the difference between them.           

Rumi

I desire you more than food or drink.
My body, my senses, my mind  hunger for your taste.
I can sense your presence in my heart although you belong to all the world.
I wait with silent passion for one gesture, one glance from you.          

the sage

 The sage confronts difficulties but never experiences them.

Rumi

Every bit of the universe is filled with wanting, and whatever any bit wants wants the wanter.

no boundaries

When souls connect via the heart , time and space does not hinder communication.

Joy

When you feel a peaceful joy,
that's when you are near truth.

 

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Know

The general population doesn't know what's happening,
and it doesn't even know that it doesn't know.

Lemuria

 

"I highly recommend the study of all James Churchward's works to give the seeker of divine knowledge the key to unlock all doors through the symbolic truths of the ancients."

  Norman Paulsen

a beautiful poem by Rumi

Be with those who help your being.
Don’t sit with indifferent people, whose breath
comes cold out of their mouths.
Not these visible forms, your work is deeper.
 

A chunk of dirt thrown in the air breaks to pieces.
If you don’t try to fly,
and so break yourself apart,
you will be broken open by death,
when it’s too late for all you could become.

Leaves get yellow. The tree puts out fresh roots
and makes them green.
Why are you so content with a love that turns you yellow?

set your intention for self-healing

You cannot heal the world until you heal yourself.

All blame is a waste of time

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy. 

meditation

Meditation is one of the greatest arts in life-perhaps the greatest, and one cannot possibly learn it from anybody. That is the beauty of it. It has no technique and therefore no authority. When you learn about yourself, watch yourself, watch the way you walk, how you eat, what you say, the gossip, the hate, the jealousy-if you are aware of all that in yourself, without any choice, that is part of meditation.

So meditation can take place when you are sitting in a bus or walking in the woods full of light and shadows, or listening to the singing of birds or looking at the face of your wife or child.

global warNing

The message of 2012 is for humans to return to their true roots. We are nothing if we don't recognize that our well being is intimately connected to the well being of all life on our planet .

salvation

Humanity is under great pressure to evolve because it is our only chance of survival as a race. This will affect every aspect of your life and close relationships in particular. Never before have relationships been as problematic and conflict ridden as they are now. As you may continue to pursue the goal of salvation through a relationship, you will be disillusioned again and again. But if you accept that the relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy, then the relationship will offer you salvation, and you will be aligning yourself with the higher consciousness that wants to be born into this world. For those who hold to the old patterns, there will be increasing pain, violence, confusion, and madness.
  

purification

Close the door to the habits that have been holding you back, change the record, clean the house, and get rid of the dust and dirt. Stop denying yourself a fair chance. Stop being who you were, and become who you really are.

gratitude

When you express gratitude, you raise the vibrations around you to a higher frequency. You create positive energy that emanates out from you and returns to you as wonderful experiences. You become magnetic. Good things and good people gravitate toward you because you’re such a joy and delight to be around.
An attitude of gratitude is naturally attractive. It has the power to turn challenges into possibilities, problems into solutions, and losses into gains. It shifts the energy. It expands our vision and allows us to see what might normally be invisible to someone with a limiting attitude.

own your power

You have no idea just how much power you posses. It’s buried deep within you. That power can be accessed at any time. All you have to do is turn your attention within, and recognise that you do have value, that you do have worth, that nothing is impossible for you to achieve because you are an individualised aspect of the very thing that created this reality to begin with. 

acronym

The word listen contains the same letters as the word silent.

an interesting fact

When you no longer look to external situations to fulfill you...the miracle is...external situations become quite fulfilling.

words of wisdom

Every day, think as you wake up, "Today I am fortunate to have woken up. I am alive, I have a precious human life. I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others, to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry, or think badly about others. I am going to benefit others as much as I can."
 

three treasures

Simplicity, patience, compassion.
These three are your greatest treasures.
Simple in actions and thoughts, you return to the source of being.
Patient with both friends and enemies,
you accord with the way things are.

Compassionate toward yourself,
you reconcile all beings in the world. 

the power of intention

You create your future with the power of your intention. Intention is simply the conscious act of determining what you want now. Health, harmony in relationships, happiness, money, creativity, and love will come to you in the future, based on your powerful intention now. Intend every day the way you want it go, and you will deliberately create your future life.

Question & Answer

Q : Coming back again and again sounds dreadful. Why don’t we just give up and be done with it? Can’t I just decide that this is my last time?
A : You cannot skip any of the steps, nor would you want to (from the soul’s perspective). You wouldn’t rent a movie but then skip to the final credits just to avoid the whole process of sitting through the movie. In fact, it’s more like a computer game. You are playing the game because you want to, and at some level you actually love it. And you know perfectly that you need to master one level before you can move on to the next level. That’s what the game is all about.

why are we here?

We have all made this choice: to use the human form as a vehicle to help us become more conscious of ourselves as the amazing beings we are. The aim is to experience every possible experience that enables us to emerge more and more consciously and fearlessly as ourselves. We begin as helpless infants for whom the experience of separate existence is quite terrifying. But we end as autonomous, self-realised beings for whom human existence is the most amazing way of being, feeling joyful and free and sharing love with the whole of life.

Soul Evolution

Choice and the ramifications of choice provide the essential lessons of life. In a very real sense, you choose to be here in order to make choices.

 

True that

Life begins at the end of your comfort zone. 

the vibration of abundance

Think abundantly. Energy follows intention.

simple truth

It's so much easier to grow and change in an atmosphere of love.

ignorance

The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don't know anything about.

self-love

You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with.

abundance

Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life.

B.F. Skinner

We shouldn't teach great books; we should teach a love of reading.

Erich Fromm

Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.

Abraham Maslow

A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write, if he is to be ultimately at peace with himself.

Patience

Patience is not sitting and waiting, it is foreseeing. It is looking at the thorn and seeing the rose, looking at the night and seeing the day. Lovers are patient and know that the moon needs time to become full.
 

Be of service

As you grow older you will discover that you have two hands; one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.

The Soul Knows

The Soul knows its wholeness

The Soul knows its beauty

The Soul knows its freedom

The Soul knows its beingness

The Soul knows its abundance

The Soul knows there is no death

The Soul knows there is nothing to acquire

The Soul knows that everything is the perfection of God

The Soul rejoices in the NOW

The Soul is pure peace and tranquility

The Soul gives and gives in pure joy

The Soul plays and plays in pure delight

The Soul knows everything

The Soul knows your Twin Flame

 The Soul desires your Twin Flame

The Soul is your Twin Flame

Reminder

Every time you subtract negative from your life, you make room for more positive.

Hidden knowledge & coming into consciousness to survive - Marcel Messing

Character

What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say.

Nikola Tesla

My brain is only a receiver. In the Universe there is a core from which we obtain knowledge, strength and inspiration. I have not penetrated into the secrets of this core, but I know it exists.

divinity

                                 Never ending grace
                               descends from the sky
                                to soothe your souls.

remember

There is nothing I can tell you that you do not already know. 
There is no question that you can ask me that you yourself cannot answer. You have just forgotten. 

Never give up

Never give up on something you can't go a day without thinking about.

a successful day

If I have been of service,
if I have glimpsed more of the nature and essence of ultimate good,
 if I am inspired to reach wider horizons of thought and action,
 if I am at peace with myself, it has been a successful day.

Butterfly

What the caterpillar calls the end of the world
the master calls the butterfly.

Soulful

You have the need and the right to spend part of your life caring for your soul. It is not easy. You have to resist the demands of the work-oriented, often defensive, element in your psyche that measures life only in terms of output ~ how much you produce ~ not in terms of the quality of your life experiences. To be a soulful person means to go against all the pervasive, 'prove-yourself' values of our culture, and instead treasure what is unique and internal and valuable in yourself and your own personal evolution.  

Richness

The richest man is not he who has the most, but he who needs the least.

humility

When we walk like rushing, we print anxiety and sorrow on the earth. We have to walk in a way that we only print peace and serenity on the earth.Be aware of the contact between your feet and theEarth. Walk as if you are kissing the Earth with your feet. 

Choose wisely !

Free yourself from negative people. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you; people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.

Alter

The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind.

Things to Start Doing in Your Relationships

 

Free yourself from negative people. – Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. When you free yourself from negative people, you free yourself to be YOU – and being YOU is the only way to truly live.
Let go of those who are already gone. – The sad truth is that there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. The good news is, if you tough it out, you’ll eventually weed these people out of your life and be left with

some great people you can count on.

We rarely lose friends and lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are. So when people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. It doesn’t mean they are bad people; it just means that their part in your story is over.
Give people you don’t know a fair chance. – When you look at a person, any person, remember that everyone has a story. Everyone hasg one through something that has changed them, and forced them to grow. Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours. We meet no ordinary people in our lives. If you give them a chance, everyone has something amazing to offer. So appreciate the possibility of new relationships as you naturally let go of old ones that no longer work. Trust your judgment. Embrace new relationships, knowing that you are entering into unfamiliar territory. Be ready to learn, be ready for a challenge, and be ready to meet someone that might just change your life forever.
Show everyone kindness and respect. – Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you – not because they are nice, but because you are. There are no boundaries or classes that define a group of people that deserve to be respected. Treat everyone with the same level of respect you would give to your grandfather and the same level of patience you would have with your baby brother. People will notice your kindness.
Accept people just the way they are. – In most cases it’s impossible to change them anyway, and it’s rude to try. So save yourself from needless stress. Instead of trying to change others, give them your support and lead by example.

Union

Someday our souls will be one and
our union will be forever.
 I know that everything I give you comes back to me.
So I give you my life , hoping that you will come back to me.

Beauty

When you reach the heart of life
you shall find beauty in all things,
even in the eyes that
are blind to beauty.
 

Change

All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another. 

My LOVE…

The difficulties you are going through right now is your door to the Master in YOU, The Master that YOU ARE.

This feels very intense and feels as if you are being torn apart.

The only thing that is being torn away, is not intended

 to be there anymore.
It feels awkward, but it’s only YOUR higher self saying “let go, because something better awaits you. Stop clinging to the past and welcome the future!”
The pain is there simply because you keep holding on to the old.
It feels like it’s hard to be in the body. It gives you a feeling as if you do not want to live anymore.But know you’re almost there.

This is the part of your final step in your PERFECT ascension and this last bit is challenging for ALL of us Great Masters and YOU will master this and Your crown awaits YOU… YOU who came to show the way of LIGHT :)
We are almost there…. The darkest hour is just before dawn…..
I can see the beginning of the Sunrise for us ALL;)
And YOU are a part of the SUN. The sun cannot shine as bright without you, for We are One in ALL
Pearl Shanti♥

Beauty

Pretty isn't beauty. Pretty is how you look; beauty is who you are. Pretty is in the face and body; beauty is in the heart, mind and soul. Pretty fades; beauty grows.

Rumi

Thankfulness brings you to the place where the Beloved lives.

Rumi

In truth , we are not here.
This is our shadow. 

Rumi

Stop searching here and there, the jewels are inside you.

Rumi

There is someone who Looks after us
from behind the curtain. 

Rumi

When one is united to the core of another, to speak of that is to breathe the name Hu, empty of self and filled with Love.

Always

Your beams of light will always reach to those who seek

heart

When the key to your heart is found, you have the key to the rest of the world through your own heart.

Get Ego Out Of The way

 

I once asked Abraham Maslow, "What do you mean when you say self-actualization?" He said, "There are just two things to remember: One is to learn to become independent of the good opinion of other people, and the second is to master the art of being detached from the fruits of your labors."

When you become the observer, you detach yourself from the outcome. You get your ego and everything in the material world out of the picture, and you allow the highest part of you to observe the circumstance. You remove all that inner turbulence, anguish, fear, and anxiety, and you then replace it with the calmness of a detached observer. The minute you sense that calmness, the solution is at hand. You're not operating from adrenaline or fear or angst.

When you face a crisis or deadline from the perspective that you only have so much time and "have to hurry," you become one more person who brings stress and anxiety to the problem.

It's in the taming of the ego that you find the sacred in your life. You find greater strength when you can stop being so focused on you and your bottom line and start reaching out to others.

They said of Jesus and Buddha that when they went into a village, their very presence raised the consciousness of those around them. They radiated a blissful serenity. That kind of peace is where you can resolve virtually any difficulty.

Carl Jung wrote a book called Modern Man in Search of a Soul wherein he talked about four stages that people go through to reach maturity. The highest stage is that of the Spirit. This is when you finally recognize that you are not an athlete, a warrior, or a statesman. That you are in this world, but not of this world. You recognize that you are not a human being having a spiritual experience, but you are a spiritual being having a human experience. In a sense, this life is all very temporary. The mystery of that is what we call unconditional love. When you are able to live this unconditional love you will have achieved this final state.


It doesn't happen if you try to figure it out using logic or look for results in the material world. When you start taking your attention off of building your business so you can make more money instead put your attention on serving everyone who comes through your door as best you can, your energy begins to spread and more people become attracted to your office.


That energy becomes infectious, because it promotes more of that love. As it does, your bottom line becomes blacker and blacker. But your awareness is always focused on serving. You let the bottom line take care of itself. It has worked for me in my organization. My profits, my sales, my bookings have just gone up and up over the years, and I have less and less concern with how I am doing.
So, Lighten Up. You do not have to strive to prove anything--unless, of course, you choose to listen to your omnipresent false self, which stipulates that if you don't stay busy pursuing something you are a failure.


Each and every instant of your life takes place in the present moment. Using your present moments to chase after future moments is an ego-based activity. Your ego wants you to feel incomplete so that it can control your life. Your false self would keep you in perpetual motion chasing after more and more until your final breath.


Your higher self does not want you to be lazy or without purpose but to realize the power in knowing that this moment is your entire life. When you stop focusing on past or future moments, you release the stress and tension that accompany the striving lifestyle. With that release, you become more productive and peaceful than you are when you look behind or ahead of yourself and don't allow your mind to rest in the still center of the present moment.


Contrary to what your ego attempts to convince you, you will not simply vegetate, or become an irresponsible drifter when you stop striving. What will happen is that you will lighten up and become engrossed in your mission. When you stop striving and start knowing that you are on a divine mission, and that you are not alone, you will be guided to the experience of arriving. That experience will introduce you to the bliss of being in the realm of spirit. Where there is no worry or guilt.


When you encounter a personal dilemma about what you want to go after in your life, turn the decision over to your sacred self; let go and listen. Your answers will come as you develop the internal willingness to allow your higher self to guide you. By giving yourself moments for appreciation, you allow yourself the freedom to arrive rather than strive. You choose to be free of ego demands and allow the loving presence to be felt.

9 Principles of Manifestation

 

1. Live from Your Highest Self - "I have a divine ability to manifest and attract all that I need and desire." 2. Learn to Trust Your Divine Inner Wisdom - "I trust in myself and in the wisdom that created me."
3. Honor Your Worthiness to Receive - "I deserve to experience divine abundance, for I am a part of God."
4. Realize that You Are Not Separate from Your Environment - "I am one with my surroundings, aware of the connective energy between me and my world."
5. Attract to Yourself What You Desire - "The Divine creative power within me brings to me all that I want with happiness, love, and peace."
6. Connect to Your Divinity with Unconditional Love - "I express the energy of unconditional love to all people and all things in my life."
7. Detach from the Outcome - "I trust in the universal intelligence that created me to bring my desires to me in just the right way at the perfect time."
8. Acknowledge Your Results with Gratitude and Generosity - "I am deeply thankful for all that I've received, and I enjoy giving to others in the spirit of love and service."
9. Meditate to the Sound of Creation - "I meditate each day to increase my awareness of the divine power within me. Through meditation, I am able to realize the beauty, grace, and love that directs my life and fulfills my deepest desires."
 

May PEACE prevail wherever you are on earth

Peace is not simply the absence of war; it is a state in which people come together in mutual trust and live with joy, energy, and hope. This is the polar opposite of war—where people live plagued by hatred and the fear of death. 

Attitude of gratitude

Let’s spend as many moments as we can every day being grateful for all the good that’s in our lives.

When you express gratitude, you raise the vibrations around you to a higher frequency. You create positive energy that emanates out from you and returns to you as wonderful experiences. You become magnetic. Good things and good people gravitate toward you because you’re such a joy and delight to be around.
An attitude of gratitude is naturally attractive. It has the power to

turn challenges into possibilities, problems into solutions, and losses into gains. It shifts the energy. It expands our vision and allows us to see what might normally be invisible to someone with a limiting attitude.
Gratitude is a prayer for goodness to abound. I think the words

 “ thank you” are two of the most beautiful words in the language. They can light up someone’s face and help the other person know that he or she is appreciated. It opens the doors to our hearts and allows us to feel connected.

Let’s spend as many moments as we can every day being grateful for all the good that’s in our lives.
 

Starting today, give up ...

live, right now. Every day is a new chance to choose. Choose to change your perspective. Choose to flip the switch in your mind from negative to positive. Choose tIf you want to fly and move on to better things, you have to give up the things that weigh you down – which is not always as obvious and easy as it sounds.

Letting the opinions of others control your life. – People know your name,not your story . They’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through. So take their opinions of you with a grain of salt. In the end, it’s not what others think, it’s what you

think about yourself that counts. Sometimes you have to do exactly what’s best for you and your life, not what’s best for everyone else.
The shame of past failures. – You will fail sometimes, and that’s okay. The faster you accept this, the faster you can get on with being brilliant. Your past does not equal your future. Just because you failed yesterday; or all day today; or a moment ago; or for the last six months; or for the last sixteen years, doesn’t have any impact on the current moment. All that matters is what you do right now.
Being indecisive about what you want. – You will never leave where you are until you decide where you would rather be. It’s all about finding and pursuing your passion. Neglecting passion blocks creative flow. When you’re passionate, you’re energized. Likewise, when you lack passion, your energy is low and unproductive. Energy is everything when it comes to being successful. Make a decision to figure out what you want, and then pursue it passionately.
Procrastinating on the goals that matter to you. – There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them. Follow your intuition. Don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do. When there is love and inspiration, you can’t go wrong. And whatever it is you want to do, do it now. There are only so many tomorrows. Trust me, in a year from now, you will wish you had started today.
Choosing to do nothing. – You don’t get to choose how you are going to die, or when. You can only decide how you are going to turn on the light and stop fretting about with insecurity and doubt. Choose to do work that you are proud of. Choose to see the best in others, and to show your best to others. Choose to truly LIVE, right now.
Your need to be right. – If you keep on saying you’re right, even if you are right now, eventually you will be wrong. Aim for success, but never give up your right to be wrong. Because when you do, you will also lose your ability to learn new things and move forward with your life.
Running from problems that should be fixed. – We make life harder than it has to be. The difficulties started when… conversations became texting, feelings became subliminal, sex became a game, the word ‘love’ fell out of context, trust faded as honesty waned, insecurities became a way of living, jealously became a habit, being hurt started to feel natural, and running away from it all became our solution. Stop running! Face these issues, fix the problems, communicate, appreciate, forgive and LOVE the people in your life who deserve it.
Making excuses rather than decisions. – Life is a continuous exercise in creative problem solving. A mistake doesn’t become a failure until you refuse to correct it. Thus, most long-term failures are the outcome of people who make excuses instead of decisions.
Overlooking the positive points in your life. – What you see often depends entirely on what you’re looking for. Do your best and surrender the rest. When you stay stuck in regret of the life you think you should have had, you end up missing the beauty of what you do have. You will have a hard time ever being happy if you aren’t thankful for the good things in your life right now.
Not appreciating the present moment. – We do not remember days, we remember moments. Too often we try to accomplish something big without realizing that the greatest part of life is made up of the little things. Live authentically and cherish each precious moment of your journey. Because when you finally arrive at your desired destination, I guarantee you,another journey will begin.
 

      

Follow your heart and be true to yourself

 Your attitude influences your world and everything you do in it. It defines the energy you send out and, in turn, takes shape and color in your circumstances. If you have a positive attitude, you are more welcoming and people are drawn to you. A positive attitude opens you to the flow of life. If you are depressed, angry, and unhappy, no one wants to be around you. You literally push people and opportunities away.
To attract positive, joyful, and prosperous situations to you, you must be that way yourself. If you have an open, loving, positive attitude, anything burdensome in life can be lightened. Therefore, it is important to be aware of your mood. It is created by your thoughts. Every day you have a choice of how you will behave, the mood you will give out to the world, and how you want people to know you.

So if you want something in your life, first you must think of it, put your intention behind it, and keep your focus on it. It is almost like baking a cake. The thought is in the oven and you have to keep it baking with belief. You have to see your thought manifesting and becoming real.

Follow your heart and be true to yourself. Never live the life of another. You have to create your own road. You have a responsibility to be the best you can possibly be, so keep your mind and heart open to the higher aspects of your being. And you will harness the power to have a loving and fulfilling life with attitude!

Let's make things simple again

Don’t try to read other people’s minds. Don’t make other people try to read yours. Communicate.
Be polite, but don’t try to be friends with everyone around you. Instead, spend time nurturing your relationships with the people who matter most to you.
Your health is your life, keep up with it. Get an annual physical check-up.
Live below your means. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need. Always sleep on big purchases. Create a budget and savings plan and stick to both of them.
Get enough sleep every night. An exhausted mind is rarely productive.
Get up 30 minutes earlier so you don’t have to rush around like a mad man. That 30 minutes will help you avoid speeding tickets, tardiness, and other unnecessary headaches.
Get off your high horse, talk it out, shake hands or hug, and move on.
Don’t waste your time on jealously. The only person you’re competing against is yourself.
Surround yourself with people who fill your gaps. Let them do the stuff they’re better at so you can do the stuff you’re better at.
Organize your living space and working space.
Get rid of stuff you don’t use.
Ask someone if you aren’t sure.
Spend a little time now learning a time-saving trick or shortcut that you can use over and over again in the future.
Don’t try to please everyone. Just do what you know is right.
Don’t drink alcohol or consume recreational drugs when you’re mad or sad. Take a jog instead.
Be sure to pay your bills on time.
Fill up your gas tank on the way home, not in the morning when you’re in a hurry.
Use technology to automate tasks.
Handle important two-minute tasks immediately.
Relocate closer to your place of employment.
Don’t steal.
Always be honest with yourself and others.
Say “I love you” to your loved ones as often as possible.
Single-task. Do one thing at a time and give it all you got.
Finish one project before you start another.
Be yourself.

Sometimes

Sometimes things must change, so you can change.
Sometimes you must break a little so you can get a peek inside to see what an awesome powerhouse you are.
Sometimes mistakes must be made so wisdom can be earned.
Sometimes you must overcome heartache so you can begin to follow your heart again.

Embrace the New

There are 7 billion people on the planet- yet people hang on unhealthy friendships and relationships all the time or hold on to stuff in their past that binds them to experiences that they just cannot let go of.

Don't be afraid to say goodbye to the people in your life that bring you down, use you or dont make you happy. If you recognize that this is the affect they have on you, then you know that there is more out there for you. Move on and embrace the new. Know in your heart you can attract a much better existence. You just have to be willing to let go of the old, perhaps be alone for a little while and then find the discernmet, intuition, boundaries and self-love to attract more like-minded beings who will love you in a way that you truly deserve.

For every friend or relationship that wastes your time and energy, there is a new friend or partner right under your nose , waiting to meet and know you.

Give up blaming everyone else

Either you own your situation or it will own you. Either you take responsibility for your life, or someone else will. Blame is a scapegoat – it’s an easy way out of taking accountability for your own outcome. It’s a lot easier to point the finger at someone or something else instead of looking within. Blame is not constructive; it does not help you or anyone else – nobody wins in the blame game. The amount of energy and stress it takes to place blame elsewhere takes away from your ability to move forward and find a real solution.

And remember, the road you are traveling may be the more challenging one, but don’t lose faith. Don’t listen to the doubters, don’t let setbacks keep you down, and most of all, don’t give up on yourself.

It’s okay if you don’t know how much more you can handle. It’s fine if you don’t know exactly what to do next. Eventually you’ll let go of how things ‘should be’ and start to see all the great possibilities in front of you. This is your life – grab the wheel with both hands and keep steering yourself in the right direction.

Whatever we are waiting for - peace of mind, contentment, grace, the inner awareness of simple abundance - it will surely come to us, but only when we are ready to receive it with an open and grateful heart.

When

When things take longer than expected, it just means that there is time and that there's a journey to enjoy.
 

Wayne W. Dyer

With everything that has happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose. 

Dr Wayne Dyer

Anytime you start a sentence with "I am," you are creating what you are and what you want to be. When you choose to say "I am happy, I am kind, I am perfect," you help the light of God inside you grow and shine.

self-love is posssible only if you

see yourself as God sees you

Simple Truth

You can't expect to draw people into your life who are kind, confident, and generous if you're thinking and acting in cruel, weak, and selfish ways. You must be what it is that you're seeking- that is, you need to put forth what you want to attract.

Let Go

There are certain people who aren’t meant to fit into your life no matter how much you want them to. And the only ones truly worthy of your love are the ones who stand with you through the hard times and laugh with you after the hard times pass. Maybe a happy ending doesn’t include anyone else right now. Maybe it’s just you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is simple letting go.

magnificent

The lesser "you" , the more space for the Creator

21 Habits of Happy People

“Happiness is a habit – cultivate it.” ~ Elbert Hubbar

Happiness is one aspiration all people share. No one wants to be sad and depressed.

We’ve all seen people who are always happy – even amidst agonizing life trials. I’m not saying happy people don’t feel grief, sorrow or sadness; they just don’t let it overtake their life. The following are 21 things happy people make a habit of doing:

1. Appreciate Life Be thankful that you woke up alive each morning. Develop a childlike sense of wonder towards life. Focus on the beauty of every living thing. Make the most of each day. Don’t take anything for granted. Don’t sweat the small stuff.

2. Choose Friends Wisely Surround yourself with happy, positive people who share your values and goals. Friends that have the same ethics as you will encourage you to achieve your dreams. They help you to feel good about yourself. They are there to lend a helping hand when needed.

3. Be Considerate
Accept others for who they are as well as where they are in life. Respect them for who they are. Touch them with a kind and generous spirit. Help when you are able, without trying to change the other person. Try to brighten the day of everyone you come into contact with.

4. Learn Continuously Keep up to date with the latest news regarding your career and hobbies. Try new and daring things that has sparked your interest – such as dancing, skiing, surfing or sky-diving.

5. Creative Problem Solving
Don’t wallow in self-pity. As soon as you face a challenge get busy finding a solution. Don’t let the set backs affect your mood, instead see each new obstacle you face as an opportunity to make a positive change. Learn to trust your gut instincts – it’s almost always right.

6. Do What They Love
Some statistics show that 80% of people dislike their jobs! No wonder there’s so many unhappy people running around. We spend a great deal of our life working. Choose a career that you enjoy – the extra money of a job you detest isn’t worth it. Make time to enjoy your hobbies and pursue special interests.

7. Enjoy Life
Take the time to see the beauty around you. There’s more to life than work. Take time to smell the roses, watch a sunset or sunrise with a loved one, take a walk along the seashore, hike in the woods etc. Learn to live in the present moment and cherish it. Don’t live in the past or the future.

8. Laugh Don’t take yourself – or life to seriously. You can find humor in just about any situation. Laugh at yourself – no one’s perfect. When appropriate laugh and make light of the circumstances. (Naturally there are times that you should be serious as it would be improper to laugh.)

9. Forgive
Holding a grudge will hurt no one but you. Forgive others for your own peace of mind. When you make a mistake – own up to it – learn from it – and FORGIVE yourself.

10. Gratitude
Develop an attitude of gratitude. Count your blessings; All of them – even the things that seem trivial. Be grateful for your home, your work and most importantly your family and friends. Take the time to tell them that you are happy they are in your life.

11. Invest in Relationships
Always make sure your loved ones know you love them even in times of conflict. Nurture and grow your relationships with your family and friends by making the time to spend with them. Don’t break your promises to them. Be supportive.

12. Keep Their Word Honesty is the best policy. Every action and decision you make should be based on honesty. Be honest with yourself and with your loved ones.

13. Meditate Meditation gives your very active brain a rest. When it’s rested you will have more energy and function at a higher level. Types of meditation include yoga, hypnosis, relaxation tapes, affirmations, visualization or just sitting in complete silence. Find something you enjoy and make the time to practice daily.

14. Mind Their Own Business
Concentrate on creating your life the way you want it. Take care of you and your family. Don’t get overly concerned with what other people are doing or saying. Don’t get caught up with gossip or name calling. Don’t judge. Everyone has a right to live their own life the way they want to – including you.

15. Optimism See the glass as half full. Find the positive side of any given situation. It’s there – even though it may be hard to find. Know that everything happens for a reason, even though you may never know what the reason is. Steer clear of negative thoughts. If a negative thought creeps in – replace it with a positive thought.

16. Love Unconditionally Accept others for who they are. You don’t put limitations on your love. Even though you may not always like the actions of your loved ones – you continue to love them.

17. Persistence Never give up. Face each new challenge with the attitude that it will bring you one step closer to your goal. You will never fail, as long as you never give up. Focus on what you want, learn the required skills, make a plan to succeed and take action. We are always happiest while pursuing something of value to us.

18. Be Proactive Accept what can not be changed. Happy people don’t waste energy on circumstances beyond their control. Accept your limitations as a human being. Determine how you can take control by creating the outcome you desire – rather than waiting to respond.

19. Self Care Take care of your mind, body and health. Get regular medical check ups. Eat healthy and work out. Get plenty of rest. Drink lots of water. Exercise your mind by continually energizing it with interesting and exciting challenges.

20. Self Confidence
Don’t try to be someone that you’re not. After all no one likes a phony. Determine who you are in the inside – your own personal likes and dislikes. Be confident in who you are. Do the best you can and don’t second guess yourself.

21. Take Responsibility Happy people know and understand that they are 100% responsible for their life. They take responsibility for their moods, attitude, thoughts, feelings, actions and words. They are the first to admit when they’ve made a mistake.
Begin today by taking responsibility for your happiness. Work on developing these habits as you own. The more you incorporate the above habits into your daily lifestyle – the happier you will be.

Most of all: BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

The Ego

The Ego, however, is not who you really are. The ego is your self-image; it is your social mask; it is the role you are playing. Your social mask thrives on approval. It wants control, and it is sustained by power, because it lives in fear. 

the right choices

To make the right choices in life, you have to get in touch with your soul. To do this, you need to experience solitude, which most people are afraid of, because in the silence you hear the truth and know the solutions.

  

If

If you think your life is about DOINGNESS, you do not understand what you are about. Your soul doesn't care what you do for a living-and when your life is over, neither will you. Your soul cares only about what you're BEING while you're doing whatever you're doing. It is a state of BEINGNESS the soul is after, not a state of doingness.
 

In life

you’ll realize there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy. If you know people who do none of these things, let them go.

Carl Jung

The meeting of two personalities is like contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed.    

Rumi

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each guest has been sent as a guide from beyond.

Rumi

Set your life on fire...
Seek those who fan your flames.  

Camille Pissarro

Blessed are they who see beautiful things in humble places where other people see nothing.

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Every single person who has drifted in and out of your life is a part of your divinely-chosen experience, so give thanks for all of these people, and take serious note of what they brought you. 

Be light to see the light

We were created to travel lightly on this planet, with the same sense of relaxed joy that little children have. As soon as you lighten up your mind, your body will lighten up as well. 

Eileen Caddy

Live by intuition and inspiration, and let your whole life be a revelation. 

Projection

Surround yourself with positivity and watch your life be transformed. What you feed your spirit is what you will project, and what you project onto others is what you get from them. 

Spiritual Evolution

Spiritual evolution occurs as the result of removing obstacles and not actually acquiring anything new. Devotion enables surrender of the mind's vanities and cherished illusions so that it progressively becomes more free and more open to the light of Truth. 

John Powell

You have a unique message to deliver, a unique song to sing, a unique act of love to bestow. This message, this song, and this act of love have been entrusted exclusively to the one and only you. 

Pure Love

Pure Love has no conditions or boundaries. Love does not restrain itself or hold back. Love gives all the time and doesn’t ask for anything in return. Love is a continuous flow without any limits. And all of this Love is inside you. 

Symptoms of Inner Change and Personal Transformation

* You sense that something big is happening
on planet Earth these days

Your inner voice tells you that
change is coming.

* You feel a restlessness stirring deep within.

You find yourself searching
for a deeper meaning
and purpose to life.

* Struggling for survival and happiness
in the material world just doesn't
satisfy you anymore.

* More and more you are becoming
bored and frustrated with the
routines of everyday life.

* You no longer feel connected or attached to things,
places, or even people you once felt close to

Your career or personal relationships
with other people don't feel
the same anymore.

* Your hunger for the material comforts
and pleasures of life leaves you
feeling empty and incomplete.

* You are beginning to realize that
lasting peace and happiness
is an inner thing.

* You find yourself breaking ties
with all things physical

You find yourself looking into the spiritual or mystical
realms for a greater sense of purpose,
direction and meaning to life.

* Tests of personal, financial or physical
hardship have found their
way into your life.

* Perhaps you suffer through periods of profound doubt,
depression, dissociation, loss of orientation,
rootlessness and a profound sense of loss.

* Heavy foods such as beef, rich deserts,
and the like no longer feel right and
lower your vibrations.

* You often find yourself wondering... who am I,
what am I really doing here or what is
my real purpose on this planet?

* Perhaps your feelings are becoming more intense,
that you cry or become overly emotional
for no good reason.

* You feel that time is speeding up.

* Sometimes you question your own sanity but there
is a knowingness deep within that says
you are on the right path.

* You find yourself going through a personal cleansing
process where old belief systems are being
weeded out from your inner being.

* At times you feel exhausted
for no apparent reason.

Other times you find it difficult to focus on
your job or other types of work.

* Your traditional belief system is showing signs
of upheaval and you find yourself
detaching from it.

* You find yourself in career crisis and are perhaps seeking
employment and professional fulfillment in an
entirely new area or a series of unfocused
projects that have little
substance to them.

* You feel a sense of separation
from family and friends.

* Material things no longer are a
source of security for you.

* For some, it seems that your
entire world is falling apart

You begin to look at things in a
much different way.

* Some days everything seems to go right...
other days everything seemingly goes wrong.

You no longer seem concerned
with financial security.

* You trust in the knowingness of your higher Self
and in the notion that the spiritual
journey is one's true path.

* Your old life is dying while at the same
time a new life is emerging.

* You find yourself very uncomfortable in
the presence of negative energy.

* Religious dogmas that have motivated
you through fear and guilt
no longer feel right.

* You find yourself waiting for signs

more and more you feel out of touch, out
of sync, with the rest of the world.

* You no longer find meaning in your work

Your life has recently gone through upheaval, perhaps
in the form of a health crisis, financial
loss, career failure, divorce,
a broken relationship.

* You feel that your vibration is increasing and that things such
as traffic, noisy malls, busy highways, bustling airports,
violent movies and other kinds of negative
energies lower your vibrations.

* You now find that attachments to any and
all things put limitations on you...
that your sense of freedom
is diminished.

* You find yourself detaching from the rat race,
material possessions, negative relationships,
and old belief systems that don't
serve you well anymore.

* You no longer feel connected to consensus reality

You find yourself seeking ways to achieve
inner peace and simplicity of life.

* You feel that you live in and sense two different realities
simultaneously: The 3-dimensional material reality
your old self used to occupy and a new reality
of higher vibration and spirituality that
you find yourself shifting into.

~~~

Feel good if you can relate to the symptoms
of personal transformation!

There are massive changes taking
place on our planet these days

Mother Earth's vibrations grow stronger every
day and they are reaching higher
and higher elevations

As that happens, you will experience
profound changes within yourself

Inner change is happening for many of us

And a greater sense of the spiritual is awakening
in the mass consciousness of humanity

a poem

Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.

Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?

I am but waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.

All is well.

So today, ask yourself

What do I appreciate about my life? – Think of your lifestyle as a diet. You fill it with the fuel that’s going to keep you performing at your highest level. Supplementing your daily routine with positivity can only make you stronger. Because once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you will start having more positive results. And over time, as this habit helps you reduce stress, release your hurt, and not take things so personally, you will not only feel better, you will look younger and live longer too.
Am I spending time with the right people? – There are over seven billion people in the world right now; don’t let a handful of negative ones ruin your happiness. No, you can’t choose every person you meet in life, but you can choose who you spend your time with. So be thankful for the people who walk into your life and make it better, but also be thankful for freedom to walk away from the ones who don’t.
What are my gut instincts telling me? – Never apologize for what you feel and what you don’t feel; that’s a betrayal of your truth. No matter how much advice people give you, sometimes you have to feel things out for yourself, make decisions on your own, experience things firsthand, and build your own conclusions from the ground up the old fashion way.
What can I do right now to move forward with my goals? – If you don’t like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree. It’s not enough to just have potential, you also need to figure out what you want to do with it, and then you need to take action. There are no ‘shoulds,’ just free choices. Decide to be one of those people who pull it off. Do what you say you’re going to do. Rise to your potential.
Am I selling myself short? – If you’re not being treated with love and respect, check your price tag. Perhaps you subconsciously marked yourself down. Because it’s YOU who tells others what you’re worth by showing them what you are willing to accept for your time and attention. So get off the clearance rack. If you don’t value yourself, no one else will either.
How am I affecting the people in my life? – Your words are truly powerful. So when you speak, make sure you use your words to lift people up, and never put them down. Respect people’s feelings, because even if it doesn’t mean anything to you, it might mean everything to them. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring – all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
 

I wish you

I wish you light in your darkest hours. When life seems to be confusing or empty, and when your path seems to be hidden in the shadows of pain, doubt, despair, or unrest, may you find the light inside of you that will help you to see things as they truly are, for every night comes to an end, every storm runs its course, and light and peace always return to us.
I wish you the power of a perspective that allows you to see the beauty of the darkness, no matter how threatening your current situation, or how uneasy you may feel. There always is light for us to access, whether it be the light of God or the light of a close friend, or even the light within ourselves that is the power and the strength with which we've all been blessed to one extent or another.

I wish you the ability to develop the light that is within you, to strengthen your spiritual faith, to help your faith in yourself to grow and thrive. You have the gift of self-sufficiency, and the possibility of growing into a person who is strong and able. But may you not grow too strong, though, so that you reject the help and love and caring of others who wish to be there for you. Balance your strength with your needs and the needs of others to be helpful and to show their caring