Are you focused on what you want? Or on what you don’t want?

When we are thinking thoughts of fear, self-doubt, worry, criticism, judgment, anger, frustration, anxiety, negativity and other disempowering fight, flight or freeze thoughts, we are not focused on what we want.

When we are thinking about the money we don’t have, the job we lost, the skills we don’t have, the payments we can’t afford, and the sacrifices we have to make, we are focused on what we don’t want.

As an individual, make it a practice to think about what you want, what truly matters to you, that brings about a life well lived for you and your family.


When we know what we truly want—what is significant to the long-lasting success of our organizations, our lives, and our relationships in any given moment—remarkable things start to happen. We open the door to our highest awareness and creative ideas emerge on what to do next and how to do it, goals become clear, and we make great decisions. We calmly and purposefully move in a direction that serves our purpose. We don’t waste time, energy, or money. We focus our thoughts, actions, and reactions on what matters. We become inspired and we inspire others. We achieve significant results.