All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness and frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.
When your mind starts telling you what you have to do to make everything okay, don't buy into what it is telling you. The truth is, everything will be okay as soon as you are okay with everything. And that's the only time everything will be okay.
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